Cheat with Caution

To some, cheating is just second nature. If the act of cheating is inevitable, the only other option is to avoid getting caught. Try to minimize the stress of getting caught by following these simple steps.

Keep communication untraceable
As difficult as it is, you have to keep the communication between you and your lover discrete. Not only should you keep it untraceable but you should try to keep it un-trackable as well. The concept is simple – you should avoid texting, emailing, calling on your regular lines of communication; if you are going to regularly text/email make sure you have separate lines or addresses for it. Never save your username/passwords in your computer, always manually input- so you don’t accidently forget it on your home devices. By un-trackable we mean you should leave the least amount of evidence as possible. You don’t want your lover to be able to bring up old videos of you both, leave the filming for the Hollywood directors. Don’t ever leave voicemails for your lover, keep the emails and texts to a minimum and always delete everything you receive from them. Keep things as clean as possible, the last thing you want is a psycho mistress who eventually unloads the details of your entire affair.

Only involve yourself with trustworthy lovers
In an affair, the ideal situation would be to have a lover that understands the relationship needs to remain discrete. To be clear from the beginning of the relationship would be best, you wouldn’t want someone to have certain expectations for your relationship – when nothing except for a sexual one. Understand that just because you have an extra lover, doesn’t mean you have to provide for them (as you would your wife/husband). Every affair would be different but you shouldn’t be afraid to iron out the details with your lover beforehand; especially if it’s going to be a continuous affair. Stay away from having an affair with your partner’s friends/coworkers/family/neighbors – you want to avoid all people that have a possible connection with your partner. To have the best of both worlds literally mean that both your partners need to come from two entirely different worlds!

Always have a reason
If you’re out with your lover, if you’re going to be home late, if you decide not to go home – you need to have a good reason. Above having a good reason, you need to have a believable reason for everything. The sooner your reasoning becomes implausible, the sooner your affair will be realized by your partner -so take this tip very seriously!

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